A Discreet Guide for Melbourne Men: Planning and Purchasing the Perfect Engagement Ring

A Discreet Guide for Melbourne Men: Planning and Purchasing the Perfect Engagement Ring


Congratulations on deciding to take the next big step in your relationship!

Choosing the perfect engagement ring can be a daunting task, especially when you are trying to keep it a secret.

But, with a little bit of planning, some astute observations, and a touch of discretion, you will soon have a ring that will leave your fiancée breathless.

Here's your discreet guide to getting it right:

Start with Size:

  • Borrow a Ring: If she has a ring that she wears on her ring finger (even if it's the other hand), borrow it discreetly. Use it to get the size from a jeweller. Just ensure you return it quickly to avoid any suspicion.
  • Ask Her Friends or Family: They might know her size or be adept at helping you find out without giving the game away. 

Discovering Her Style:

  • Jewellery Box Recon: Do some detective work. Look at her existing jewellery. Is she into vintage, modern, or classic pieces? Does she favour gold, rose gold, or silver?
  • Listen Actively: Often, women drop hints about their preferences. Whether she’s mentioning a friend’s ring she adored or a style she saw in a magazine, pay attention.
  • Consult Her Close Ones: Friends and family can be great allies. They might have discussed styles or even gone window shopping together.

Consider Her Lifestyle:

  • Professional and Personal Life: If she has a hands-on job or enjoys activities like gardening, consider more secure settings like bezel. If she's into fashion or has a penchant for luxury, perhaps something more elaborate or unique might suit.
  • Her Personal Style: Is she elegant and understated or does she like making bold statements? Think about her wardrobe choices, the kind of bags she carries, or even the type of shoes she often wears.


Research and Learn:

  • The 4 Cs: Understand the basics of diamonds – Cut, Colour, Clarity, and Carat. This knowledge will empower you to make informed choices.
  • Popular Styles: While unique is wonderful, it's good to know the trends. Solitaire engagement rings, halo engagement rings, and brilliant cut engagement rings are currently adored in Melbourne and worldwide.

Determine Your Budget:

  • While it's essential to buy a ring that she'll love, it's equally crucial to stay within your means. Remember, it’s the sentiment, not the size or price, that counts.

Engage a Trustworthy Jeweller:

  • Personal Recommendations: Seek recommendations from friends or family who've been through this process.
  • Read Reviews: Sites offer feedback on jewellers, giving you insight into their reputation.
  • Visit the Store: Once you've shortlisted a few, visit them. Simon West Fine Jewellery is located in Melbourne’s CBD, specialises in bespoke rings, and offers warm, personal customer experiences to help guide your decision-making. 

Be Ready with a Cover Story:

  • If you're spending more time out or acting a little suspicious, have a story ready. Whether it’s extra work assignments or a new hobby, make sure it's believable.

Safe Storage

  • Once you've procured the ring, it's essential to store it safely where she won't stumble upon it. Consider asking a trustworthy friend to keep it or find a secure place at home she rarely accesses.

Trust Your Instincts:

  • At the end of the day, nobody knows your fiancée as you do. Trust your gut feeling. If a particular ring feels right, it probably is.


Planning a proposal is an exciting journey filled with anticipation and love. And while the road to finding the perfect ring might is not always a straight path, remember that it leads to a beautiful destination – a shared future.

In the heart of Melbourne, where art meets fashion and modernity embraces tradition, let your choice of ring reflect the love, commitment, and unique story you share with your partner.

Best of luck lads!

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